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Dear Megan, there's this guy and he's driving me crazy. He thinks that I should just give in but I'm not willing to be a pushover. So what should I do? Signed Proving Herself
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Dear Proving Herself;
There is a difference between being a pushover and giving a little. If this guy is constantly asking you to give into his demands then you need to take a stand and tell him that you’re not easily pushed over. There is no easy way to say that you’re not a door mat so just coming out and saying it is the best method.
On another note, if this is a constant thing, you two need to sit down and have a discussion about how you feel about the situation.
Good luck,
Megan
Dear Proving Herself;
There is a difference between being a pushover and giving a little. If this guy is constantly asking you to give into his demands then you need to take a stand and tell him that you’re not easily pushed over. There is no easy way to say that you’re not a door mat so just coming out and saying it is the best method.
On another note, if this is a constant thing, you two need to sit down and have a discussion about how you feel about the situation.
Good luck,
Megan
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UPDATE LETTER;
Dear Megan,
Thanks so much for all of your help. Things have been worked out and hopefully this fight has allowed us to learn more about each other and grow as people. You're amazing and I know now who to always turn to for advice. You rock!
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Dear Megan,
There's this girl that I'm absolutely crazy about. She makes me feel fantastic. She's kind, she's pretty, she's smart, and there's a bunch of other things too. She just gives me this warm feeling on the inside. I not exactly sure on what to do to show her how I feel. Do you have any advice for me in that realm? - One Lucky Guy
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Dear One Lucky Guy,
That’s great to hear! There’s nothing better than having the warm butterflies in your tummy. But showing one how one feels is a tough thing to do. Sometimes we have no idea how to go about it but sometimes the most simple of gestures are some of the most remembered and most loved memories. Little gestures could be the 25 cent rings you get from grocery stores, a single red rose, or a handwritten note with a heart. A well placed hug is always a plus.
Keep it simple and keep it real and you’ll never go wrong. Sometimes girls just want to be swept up off their feet. I think you’ve got all abilities to make her happy. Congratulations and don’t let her go!
Good luck,
Megan
That’s great to hear! There’s nothing better than having the warm butterflies in your tummy. But showing one how one feels is a tough thing to do. Sometimes we have no idea how to go about it but sometimes the most simple of gestures are some of the most remembered and most loved memories. Little gestures could be the 25 cent rings you get from grocery stores, a single red rose, or a handwritten note with a heart. A well placed hug is always a plus.
Keep it simple and keep it real and you’ll never go wrong. Sometimes girls just want to be swept up off their feet. I think you’ve got all abilities to make her happy. Congratulations and don’t let her go!
Good luck,
Megan
